You are a stranger to me and requesting private alone time with me. You can research me via my ads and social media. I know nothing about you other than what you will share here. I am not going to call your wife and have lunch with her. I am not going to show up at a little league game. The more information you provide(can include employer), the more comfortable I will be. And the more fun we will have. Safety and discretion are priority.
References: They do not have to be local. If you travel a lot, you won't have many local. Any verifiable and reputable companion you have seen within 6 months will be fine. Please include how she will remember you.
I use various services to screen everyone. This is for my safety and yours. I do not care about keeping your personal information nor do I make any contacts other than your references. Your information will be deleted once the process is complete. So please, be honest!
****If I find a discrepancy in your info provided, I will inquire about it.****